Cerebral Domme

Frequently Asked Questions

As the Cerebral Domme, questions will arise with a new connection, especially when they feel they may be in a vulnerable position. Below, you will find the answers to many of the topical issues you will encounter when you engage with me.

A Cerebral Domme is a Domina focusing on the intellectual and emotional facets of D/s engagements. 

My Dominance has always been with me; I have practiced it for over 20 years.  In real life, I have a career separate from my Cerebral Domme persona, but my career, education, and life experiences are interwoven here.  My dominance peppers all parts of my life. 

I focus on the intellectual and emotional components of D/s because of authenticity. What captivates, stimulates, and motivates you is often rooted in your history. We recall our histories through memory aided by intellect and emotion. Your submission is influenced, if not shaped, by the total of your life experiences.  

Engagement is beyond the superficial; this is more than entertainment. As the Cerebral Domme, I am delving into the deeper, more complex, what makes you tick material.  

This exploration and exposure happen over multiple engagements without coercion.  It requires vulnerability, emotional intimacy, intellectual capacity, and chemistry between us. 

My relationships with established submissives are based on respect, trust, chemistry, and mutual interests. Healthy D/s relationships are built over time.  If this is a right fit, you will return consistently because  you will be able to access something in this relationship you cannot in in others. 

Presently I am available via phone and text.  I also offer one-way cam sessions via the Loyalfans platform.  This is a safe and secure video connection where we can engage while you are on camera.

If you are shy or reticent about interactive engagement, I have hundreds of audio clips available here.  

Generally,

I am in the EST.  Monday through Friday, I am available from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. and 8 p.m. to 11 p.m.

Weekends are by chance and by arrangement.

The conversation should be interactive.  I am authentically Dominant and intellectually curious. It would be helpful if you have embraced intellectual curiosity and are authentically submissive.  If there is chemistry, the conversation flows naturally.  Please note:  I do not role-play.  

I can engage on a wide range of topics. I am interested in learning about you. Your experiences, your hopes, your dreams. Not others. 

  • Calls only need to be prearranged if they are outside my scheduled hours. You are welcome to text me in advance about the topics you want and if you have any questions or concerns.
  • I am confident in my role and not hung up on titles. Different submissives use different titles to address me, and I want my submissives to be comfortable in our engagement. Whatever title you use to address me should feel authentic to you. If I find it offensive, I will address it with you.
  • Although I specialize in Humiliation, I treat my submissives with respect.  I will respect your time, your boundaries, and your interests.  I will ask the same in return.

Yes.  The overarching umbrella specialty of mine is Humiliation.  Under that umbrella comes the following:

  • Findom
  • Emasculation
  • Femdom
  • Emotional Masochism 
  • Sissies/Crossdressers
  • Homosexual Topics
  • Addiction
  • General Humiliation

Yes. Delicately, If it is illegal, don’t bring it up. I won’t entertain it, not even as a fantasy.

That being said, I only engage with consenting adults 18 and over.  

There is no script for calls or minimum/maximum time frame.  You decide how much you want to invest in the call.  Let me know at the start of our time how long you want our time together to be so I can respect your time and pace the call.  

I do not require a minimum amount of time to be purchased, nor do I offer blocks of time for purchase. At the present time, the cost per minute is $2.99 USD.   Payment is by credit/debit card only. I can be reached at (203) 664-5952.

Texting is available via Premium Chat.   However, the most robust experience and interactive opportunity is via the phone.  Texting works best as a support mechanism.  If you use it as your primary communication tool with me, you cheat yourself out of a comprehensive experience.

I do not require a minimum amount of time to be purchased, nor do I offer blocks of time for purchase. Currently, the cost per minute is $3.00 USD.   Payment is by credit/debit card only. The charges appear as “Premium Chat” on subsequent statements. 

If you are unsure about investing in a call or are shy, my library of audio content is an easy way to test-drive the potential opportunity that may lie before us. 

All of my niches of Findom, Emasculation, Sissies, Crossdressers, Addiction, Femdom, Emotional Masochism, Homosexuality, and Cerebral Domination are covered within the Audio Clips at a variety of price points.  

Cerebral Domme audio clips purchased can be downloaded in MP3 format for personal listening pleasure on Loyalfans. Payment is by credit/debit card only. The charges will appear as “Loyalbills” on subsequent statements.  

If there is ever a qualitative issue with the audio clips you have purchased, please contact me here so I can rectify the issue(s).

Contact me here.

At this point, I maintain my most up-to-date audio clip catalogue on Loyalfans.  This is where I will always have the most recent additions to my catalogue and where I can offer the best deals on content pricing and promotions for clients. LoyalFans also provides another way to direct message me.  Because LoyaIfans is my preferred venue, I answer all the messages I receive there.  

Yes, I do.  I offer one-way cam sessions via the Loyalfans platform.  This is a safe and secure video connection where we can engage while you are on camera.

Yes, I offer Custom Audio Clips.  The parameters for a Custom Audio Clip are the following:

  • The topic must fit the niche that I specialize in.  
  • Loyalfans is my preferred platform. I only deliver Custom Audio Clips via LoyalFans; all payments must happen via that platform. This offers us both privacy and financial protection.
  • The minimal amount of time a Custom Audio Clip is 5 minutes.  The maximum is 15 minutes.  
  • You should provide a script that I will approve in advance. If you choose not to provide a script, one can be provided at an additional cost.
  • Custom Audios are either exclusive or non-exclusive, and the price points are different for each one. If you choose exclusive, I will never again utilize that script. Non-exclusive allows me to reuse the material without the personalization provided in your Custom Audio Clip.  
  • The cost per minute starts at $5.00 per minute (this would be for a non-exclusive clip with you providing a full script with personalization. The upper range for clips would be $20 per minute for an exclusive clip, with you providing the full script.  
  • A 50% deposit is required upfront via Loyalfans.  The balance is due upon delivery via Loyalfans and will be delivered via locked content.  If the balance is not paid within five business days, our agreement is voided, and I can choose to use the content and or script however I choose.
  • This is a non-refundable product-service.  Before engaging it please consult with me via Loyalfans so I can provide you with the best outcome.  
  • Delivery time varies depending on the number of services you require, personalization, and my schedule. During our consultation, we will agree on a delivery date.

I want your experience with me to be robust and fulfilling. If you have technical issues (e.g., an audio clip is garbled, you cannot download what you have purchased, or some other technical problem), please contact me via the contact page so I can help resolve the issue.  

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